1. Prevents You From Focusing on The Actual Instead of Imaginary
Insecure folks have such a strong tendency to inhabit an alternate imaginary universe that they seldom focus on the real. Rather than cherishing the relationship for what it is at present, they destroy it by imaging scenarios that have no basis in reality. Instead of concentrating on what they have, they focus on what they fear losing – and ultimately end up losing it (which is so paradoxical). Insecurity doesn’t allow a relationship to be grounded in reality, rather makes us a victim of illusions that destroy the reality bit by bit.